I cannot stand annoying noises.
This has been the case as long as I can remember. So many times I have been incredulous the way my friends handled situations I found intolerable: distant car alarms, club noise deep into the night across from our hotel, slot machines, an excruciating water pump outside our room. All of these have been non-negotiables for me, requiring immediate action.
A couple weeks ago Melissa had some friends over. She later told me that Eli cried for much of their stay, but they just kinda ignored it and kept talking.
My response: WTF??!?
The idea of carrying on a conversation over Eli's cries is inconceivable to me. When he's crying, I see only two options:
1) Stop the crying
2) Remove myself from the situation
Continuing an activity while my son cries is not a possibility. There is no version of enjoyment simultaneous with that sound. When it begins, my goal is to stop it ASAP. I'm dumbfounded anyone could feel otherwise.
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